Why Home Buying Feels a Lot Like Searching for the Perfect Jeans
Shopping for jeans isn’t just a casual errand—it’s an experience. Anyone who’s spent time in a fitting room trying on pair after pair knows the challenge of finding the perfect fit. It’s not about grabbing the first thing on the rack; it’s about identifying what works for you—your style, your comfort, and your budget.
Last week when I felt the dread of needing to go to the mall for new jeans, I couldnt help but think of similar feeling buyers have had in the past when it comes to starting their home buying journey. Of course, home buying and jean shopping are very different, but the feelings can be surprisingly similar. Both can feel overwhelming at first—there are so many options, and you want to make sure you’re choosing the right one. Just like jeans, finding the right home takes patience and a willingness to explore what fits your needs and lifestyle.
my referenced, perfect jeans that I am so THRILLED to have (full story below)🥰
While the exciting parts of home buying often make it online, the challenges—like budgeting, decision-making, or feeling unsure about where to start—don’t get talked about as much. If you’re feeling stuck, know you’re not alone, and help is available to guide you every step of the way.
1. The Search for the Right Fit
When I was on the hunt for jeans, I went in with a vision. I knew I wanted something that felt good, looked good, and fit into my lifestyle. Being postpartum, I had found myself navigating a whole new identity, which inspired my need for jeans that truly fit. If anyone knows me, they know that I think shopping in person is daunting. However, finding the right pair was important to me—especially because I wanted something I could rely on and use for a long time. Additionally, they needed to be likable enough for our refresh photoshoot Kim and I were attending. I had a vision in mind: mom jeans. Once I was in the store, the reality set in: some pairs looked great on the hanger but didn’t feel quite right when I tried them on.
Similarly, when searching for a home, the process often involves exploring different options. The house you thought you’d love might not fit your lifestyle as well as you imagined. That’s why it’s important to stay open to explore during your home search before finding the one that truly works.
2. Balancing Budget and Value
During my jean-buying journey, I found a pair that fit like a glove, but the price tag made me hesitate. It was a little more than I had planned to spend. I debated whether to stick to my original budget or invest a little more in quality and long-term satisfaction.
The same decision often comes up in real estate. Maybe you find a home that checks all the boxes, but it’s slightly above your initial budget. In those moments, it’s important to focus on the value the home brings, how well it fits your lifestyle, and whether it aligns with your long-term goals, rather than just the price tag. A lender can also help ensure you’re staying within your financial comfort zone, giving you confidence that your decision is the right one for your budget and future.
3. The Connection
Jeans aren’t just about the fit—they’re about how they make you feel. When I finally found the perfect pair, I left the store feeling confident and comfortable, knowing I’d made the right choice, especially because it was a pair I could use for a long time in the future.
A home is no different. It’s not just about square footage or location; it’s about how you feel when you walk through the door. Do you see yourself cooking in the kitchen? Relaxing in the living room? Entertaining friends in the backyard? The emotional connection is key to knowing you’ve found the one.
4. Why the Journey Matters
If there’s one thing my jean-buying experience taught me, it’s that the process matters just as much as the result. Trying on different pairs helped me clarify what I really needed—and what I didn’t. I was also guided by the store associate, someone who knew the inventory and could point me toward options that might work best. The same applies to finding a home. It’s a journey of self-discovery that helps you understand your priorities and preferences, with the guidance of someone who knows the market inside and out.
Kim having a moment in her new jeans in this stunning Infinity model home bathroom.
And just like a good shopping experience, a good home-buying experience is meant to be shared. That’s exactly what I did when I told Kim about the jeans, and of course, she bought the same pair!
Let’s Find Your Perfect Fit
Whether you’re searching for a new pair of jeans or a place to call home, the journey to finding the perfect fit is worth it. No one often talks about the challenges of home buying because online, it’s all about the exciting highlights. However, even with the hurdles, the process can be streamlined, fun, and exciting with our team supporting you every step of the way. Your home should reflect your style, meet your needs, and feel just right—just like my pair of jeans. And if you're looking for the perfect pair of jeans, they are the tall 90's Madewell high-waisted straight cut, specifically available at Von Maur or Amazon (in different colors) ;)
If you’re ready to start your home-buying journey, we're here to guide you every step of the way. Let’s work together to find the home that fits your lifestyle, budget, and dreams as perfectly as your favorite pair of jeans.
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